Today I sent my book to the publisher to begin the edit process. I am real close to calling myself an author. I can taste it.
This reminded me of a conversation I had with a friend of mine who I have lunch with every two weeks. We are both retired. He asked me, “what do you tell people you do?”
Early in my retirement, I would have answered, “I’m retired.” But that evokes images of me sitting around the house in my boxers all day. Which isn’t true. I don’t do it all day.
I am a radio show host, blogger and soon to be author. But those are a lot of labels. And what I call myself isn’t that important to me.
What is important to me are the labels I have tossed aside. The labels I used to own but that I have now discarded:
- I’m shy.
- I can’t speak in public.
- I am not mechanically inclined.
- I can’t draw.
- I’m too busy to workout.
These labels acted like excuses. They kept me in a box.
One of my rules states, just because you couldn’t, doesn’t mean you can’t.
- I used to be shy. I worked on it and now I can talk to strangers.
- I used to have stage fright. I worked on it and now I can speak.
- I used to be mechanically inept. I worked on it and now I have some mechanical aptitude
- I used to be unable to draw. I worked on it and now I do some basic sketching.
- I used to be too busy to workout. I made working out a priority and am now getting regular exercise.
The only labels I try to claim now are positive labels, not negative ones.
What do I do? I am Walt 2.0. Enough said!
Now you can write too. This is the best piece you’ve written yet, Walt!